Etiquette

some important info to ensure an awesome date

  • I accept cash, Bitcoin, USDT, gold, and Ethereum for payment.

    Please place the patronage in an unsealed, unmarked envelope on the bathroom counter at the beginning of our encounter. For public encounters, please use a greeting card, gift bag, or book.

    For crypto payment, please email me for a fresh receive address.

    Tips are always greatly appreciated.

    Patronage is for my time and companion only.

  • Screening is mandatory to ensure my safety. Info submitted will be used to make sure you do not have a criminal record, are of appropriate age, and the person in the ID is the one I will be meeting.

    Booking forms are set up to go straight to my encrypted mail and to be seen by only me. Once I verify that you are safe to see, your info will be deleted.

    Because I handle all communication, allow 24-48 hours for my reply.

    Screening Requirements (at least two):

    • Government or work ID (please leave photo, name, and age but you may blur other info).

    • Employment Verification: any of these would work - LinkedIn with more than 100 connections, company bio, company email, work badge, profiles from Bloomsberg, Forbes, etc…

    • 2-3 references from independent providers you’ve seen in the past 6 months, or P411 #.

    • Active social media profiles.

    • To secure a date, a 10% retainer will be requested to hedge against last-minute cancellations and no-shows. The retainer counts towards the rate of our date.

    • For 6hr dates or longer, a 20% retainer is required.

    • For Fly me to you dates, a 25-40% retainer is required.

    • It’s recommended to send the retainer as soon as possible as I receive a lot of inquiries. If someone else requests the same date/time, I will reserve the slot for whoever sends the retainer first.

    The retainer is non-refundable if you cancel as I have reserved the time slot for you. If I need to cancel, the retainer will be promptly refunded.

    Accepted payment methods for the retainer:

    • Amazon, Uber e-gift card: You can purchase these online, or in-store. For online purchases, send the card to your own email address. Once you have it, email me the Gift redeem code.

    • CashApp: $onskaiinc (put fundraiser in the note section)

    • Bitcoin (add 5% to the fee to compensate for potential losses during conversion).

    • Non-reloadable Vanilla gift card: can be purchased at any drugstore with cash. Please email photos of the front and back of the card.

    • The retainer can be sent to my listed email at novaaora at protonmail dot com, or unlisted email upon request.

    • I DO NOT accept Venmo or Paypal. Requests for these payment methods will not be accommodated.

  • Communication will be via email for discretion.

    You will find my emails brief to protect your privacy and mine. I prefer to get to know one another in person.

  • Dates longer than 2hr: Allow time for a fun activity such as lunch/dinner (room service or take-out if discretion is required), shows, or museum…I know you will be a complete gentleman who goes above and beyond to make sure I feel comfortable.

    Overnights are up to 16hrs. At least 8hr of uninterrupted sleep is required. Overnights usually start at 6 p.m. and end at 10 a.m., but this can be flexible.

    Weekend getaways: Please allow me 1hr of personal time each day for upkeep, emails, etc…

  • I understand that life happens and things don’t always go as planned. Cancellation policies will be enforced at my discretion. If you have to cancel, please be respectful of my time by letting me know well in advance.

    • No shows without notice: Cancellation fee applies to stay in good standing.

    • For incalls, if you cancel after I booked our accommodation, the retainer is non-refundable.

    • While I am very understanding, a 20%-100% of rate as the cancellation fee will be requested depending on the situation as it’s highly likely that I’ve turned down other opportunities to save the time slot for you.

    • Cancellation fee while touring: 50%-100% of the rate.

    • Failure to pay the cancellation fee will result in being added to blacklists where other companions are alerted. Future requests to see me will be denied.

    • Clients who enquire about a session and don’t follow through most of the time don’t get a second chance.

  • I’ll gladly provide a reference if I have seen you at least 2 times within the past 6 months.

    If you do not meet the requirements, please refrain from giving my name as your reference.

  • A retainer of 25% is required to confirm an FTMY date. The retainer counts towards the rate of our date.

    This hedges against last-minute cancellations, and no-shows, and accounts for travel and research time spent.

    If you are not ready to send the 25% retainer, please refrain from contacting me.

    Unless previously discussed, most of the time, I will arrange my own transportation to/from airports and book my own flights for privacy reasons. You are welcome to suggest the flights that will work best for us.

    Normal screening protocols apply.

  • Due to the abusive nature of review sites and for my privacy, I have a no-review policy and wish that the time we spent together remains private.

    The only exception is privatedelights.

  • Booking forms are sent directly to my encrypted Protonmail and will be viewed by only me. I handle all screening/communication, so please allow 24-48 hours for a reply.

    All info sent will be kept confidential and deleted once I verify that you are safe to see. The only information retained is an email address and/or phone number for scheduling future dates.

    My face is blurred in photos for safety and privacy reasons. Requests for face photos of someone who chose not to be face-in show a lack of common courtesy and consideration. This will end our communication immediately.

  • I post my travel dates on this website, so check back often if you’d like to know when I will be back in your town!


faqs

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  • My preference leans toward longer (3+hr) unrushed dates where there’s sufficient time for me to feel comfortable around you at a relaxed pace. Efforts to make me feel safe and comfortable are greatly appreciated as that allows me to relax and be my most authentic self. For the first date, lunch or dinner is the most popular and never fails.

    Suitors who plan some sort of fun activities have a special place in my heart. Some dates I’ve enjoyed immensely in the past include tasting menus, couples spas, shows, museums, shopping, etc.

    For those with legitimate discretion concerns, room service, or UberEats will suffice.

  • My weaknesses are omakase and desserts.

    I love trying new cuisines & restaurants. Drink-wise, I prefer sparkling water.

  • Please peruse the etiquette page, it is the most important.

    While my website is wordy as I want to provide you with as much info as I can, in person, I’m more of a listener.

    Also important: Don’t be early if it’s an incall.

    If you are a first-time client, you will find this client guide from tryst.link helpful.

  • Until I reach my saving goal, December 2023 is what I have in mind. After that, I might stay under the radar seeing a few trusted regulars, or exit entirely.

    **Update: I’m semi-retired and only see regulars but will occasionally be enticed to a thoughtful introduction (3hr+) lunch/dinner date.

  • If you have an outfit you’d like for me to wear for you, feel free to send funds to my cash app so I can bring your vision to life. Booking a shopping date is another great idea.

  • I will dress appropriately for the venues and activities with your discretion in mind. My style is feminine and classy. I usually opt for dresses or business casual ensembles.

    Makeup will be minimal.

  • Please allow 24-48 hours for my reply as I handle all screening/communication.

    Before sending me a follow-up email, check your spam folder.

    Due to the large volume of inquiries received, my limited time as Nova, and my preference to keep my circle small, 3-hour date inquiries are prioritized.

    For starters, your inquiry will most likely not be considered if you:

    • are rude, short, or explicit in communication.

    • requested too short of a duration for the first date.

    • provided not enough screening info or screening info not verifiable.

    • showed signs that you hadn’t read the etiquette page prior to inquiring.

    • had a history of flaky or carrot-dangling behaviors when contacting me in the past.

    Reliability is something I regard highly in my suitors. Only contact me when you are ready to meet. Clients who enquire about a session and don’t follow through most of the time don’t get a second chance.

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