Etiquette
Essential details to ensure a seamless and memorable time together.
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I accept cash, Bitcoin, USDT, and Ethereum.
Please place the patronage in an unsealed, unmarked envelope on the bathroom counter at the beginning of our encounter. For public encounters, please use a greeting card, gift bag, or book.
For crypto payment, please email me for a fresh receive address.
Patronage is for my time and companionship only.
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Screening is mandatory to ensure my safety. The information submitted is strictly used to confirm that you do not have a criminal record, are of appropriate age, and that the individual in the ID matches the person I will be meeting.
Safety is non-negotiable, and screening protocols cannot be bypassed under any circumstances. Aligning on mutual respect and safety ensures we are a good fit.
Booking forms are submitted directly to my private, encrypted email and reviewed solely by me. All information provided is kept strictly confidential and permanently deleted immediately upon verification. Because I manage all inquiries personally, please allow 24–48 hours for a response.
Screening Requirements (Please provide at least two):
Government or Work ID: You may blur sensitive personal details (such as address or ID numbers), but your photo, full name, and age must remain visible. Links via secure cloud storage are welcomed.
Employment / Executive Verification: Active LinkedIn profile (100+ connections), official company bio, corporate email, work badge, or verified executive profile (Bloomberg, Forbes, etc.).
Provider References: 2–3 references from independent providers met within the last 6 months, or an active P411 handle.
Active Social Media: Verified, active personal profiles.
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A 20% retainer will be requested to hedge against last-minute cancellations and no-shows. The retainer counts towards the rate for our date.
For Fly me to you dates, a 25%-40% retainer is required.
It’s recommended that you send the retainer as soon as possible, as I receive a lot of inquiries.
Should you cancel with notice, your deposit can be applied towards a rescheduled future date, as long as that date takes place in the following 3 months.
If I need to cancel, the retainer will be promptly refunded.
Accepted payment methods for the retainer:
Amazon, Uber e-gift card: You can purchase these online or in-store. For online purchases, send the card to your email address. Once you have it, please email me the Gift redeem code.
CashApp: $onskaiinc (put Consulting Fee in the note section)
Bitcoin: I’ll email a receiving address upon request
Vanilla gift card: can be purchased at any drugstore. Please email photos of the front and back of the card.
The retainer can be sent to my listed email at novaaora at protonmail dot com, or an unlisted email upon request.
I DON'T accept Venmo or Paypal.
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Communication will be via email for discretion.
You will find my emails brief to protect your privacy and mine. I prefer getting to know one another in person ;)
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Dates 2 hours or longer: All dates should have at least a small bite or a drink.
I know you will be a complete gentleman who goes above and beyond to ensure I feel comfortable.
Overnights are up to 16hrs. 7hr of uninterrupted sleep is required.
Weekend Getaways: To keep things balanced, please allow me one hour of personal time a day for self-care and emails.
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I understand that life happens and things don’t always go as planned. Cancellation policies will be enforced at my discretion. If you must cancel, please respect my time and inform me well in advance.
My time is reserved exclusively for you upon confirmation. In the event of a last-minute cancellation, the remaining balance of the date remains due out of courtesy for reserved time.
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I’ll gladly provide a reference if I have seen you at least 2 times within the past 6 months.
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To protect our mutual privacy, I maintain a strict no-review policy and ask that all time spent together remains entirely private and confidential.
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Booking inquiries are received directly via my encrypted ProtonMail and handled solely by me. Please allow 24–48 hours for a response.
Your privacy is fully protected: all information shared during screening is kept strictly confidential and permanently deleted once verified.
To protect our mutual anonymity, my photos remain feature-veiled, and I don’t provide unblurred photos or phone/video calls prior to our date.
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I keep my current travel schedule updated on my website. Check back anytime to see my upcoming locations
faqs
Got a question? Have no fear! Help is here!
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I like experience-based, extended dates (3+ hours) that allow me time to feel safe and comfortable around you. A timeless lunch or dinner date is always the perfect way to begin.
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My weaknesses are omakase and desserts. My preferred drink is sparkling water.
I don’t drink alcohol, but I don’t mind if you do.
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Please read through the Etiquette section for some helpful tips to ensure a smooth experience.
Don’t be early for an in-call date.
New to this? You will find this client guide from tryst.link helpful.
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Until I reach my saving goal, December 2023 is what I have in mind. After that, I might stay under the radar seeing only regulars, or exit entirely.
** Update: I'm semi-retired and only see a small number of thoughtful suitors. My time as Nova is limited, and I prioritize quality over quantity. Longer, more meaningful dates (3 hours or more) are my preferred pace. If you're kind, courteous, and have taken the time to read my website, you're already off to a wonderful start. -
The sweetest way to request a specific outfit is by gifting it. If you have a particular vision in mind, feel free to send a gift via CashApp, and I will happily bring it to life for our date. Alternatively, for an even more memorable experience, we can turn it into an afternoon shopping date!
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I will dress appropriately for the venues and activities, with your discretion in mind. My style is feminine and classy. I usually opt for dresses or business casual outfits.
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Please allow 24–48 hours for a response, as I personally handle all communication. Before sending a follow-up, kindly check your spam folder.
Due to the high volume of inquiries, my limited availability, and preference to keep my circle small, I prioritize thoughtful introductions and 3-hour (or longer) date requests.
If you haven’t received a response, it is likely due to one of the following:
The inquiry was explicit or inappropriate.
The requested duration was too brief for an initial meeting.
Incomplete or unverifiable screening details were provided.
A past pattern of noncommittal communication or flakiness.
I deeply value reliability, respect, and intentionality. Those who inquire but don’t follow through are typically not given a second chance.
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